Why One Must Never Give False Hope.
Some say `Hope´ is a dangerous thing, others say ´Hope´is an expectation our heart just make up. Hope can never be bad because as humans we need hope to keep us alive and well. Many people feel afraid to even hope for something good and always think negative. Well the reason people fear hope is because they been given false hope. Now that is very dangerous, people give false hope to others in time where you get drunk. Well not literally drunk but when they are drunk with emotions, example when a doctor feels so sad for his patient because he has a heart cancer and the doctor lies to his patient saying he has two more years to live, when the patient has only a month. Now imagine you are the patient and thinking you have time. You plan everything to do next year for your bucket list, and...
Well that is unfortunate, you couldn´t make it and you couldn´t even say goodbye to your families. False hope can not only destroy the people around you but at the same time even destroy you. The doctor might get fired as he gave the wrong predictions or he might not get as many patients like before. For the families of the patient they might not know why death occurred so suddenly after a month but it would kill them from inside not getting to say goodbye. For you as the doctor would have to live in regret forever knowing that it was you who killed him.
People give false hope all the time without even realizing it, when you say you will be there to watch your son´s basketball match but you have a meeting at 3pm. When you say " I love you" just to make him happy but you aren´t sure from your heart. That small time when you promise do something for someone but you know it can´t happen. Think of all the dreams you destroyed just because you wanted to give that person temporary happiness. In a way false hope is like ´orgasm´ you feel so happy for sometime but quickly drown yourself in reality.
So if false hope is so bad, what should you do? Tell them the harsh truth. It maybe hard and it maybe something most people won´t dare to do but is for the best. They might hate you for it but in time people will realize that it was for the best. You should never live a life holding on to that regret for giving false hope to someone. Of course if you don´t feel regret then you are evil lol.
" It is better to live in a harsh truth than to live in a blissful lie," one must tell the truth to not give false hope.
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